THE author behind a book which documented a grieving mum’s harrowing story is set to take part in a skydive for a domestic abuse charity having been inspired to raise cash for the vital service.
Millhouse Green-based Michelle Rawlins teamed up with inspirational Claire Throssell for the book, named For My Boys.
It told Claire’s heartbreaking story and her subsequent tale of determination to seek justice for her sons - 12-year-old Jack and nine-year-old Paul - and give a voice to all children who are at risk at the hands of an abusive parent.
After she found the strength to leave her husband of 16 years, Darren Sykes, his ‘campaign of brutality’ didn’t end but the courts ignored her - and their sons’ - wishes and gave him unsupervised access despite Claire’s concerns of him harming them.
But Michelle, having been inspired by her friend’s bravery, is set to face her own fears by completing a skydive for IDAS (Independent Domestic Abuse Service) on August 23.
She said: “It’s a charity that’s very close to my heart.
“Anyone who knows me will know I am well and truly stepping out of my comfort zone here.
“I can’t even go on a theme park ride without feeling hideously sick.
“But I am passionate about helping those affected by domestic abuse.
“I have interviewed survivors and written about what they have had to endure, including the truly remarkable Claire, who is an ambassador for IDAS.
“I have also worked with IDAS for several years to help survivors build a trusting and two way relationship with journalists.
“IDAS support thousands of survivors every year to help them rebuild their lives, after suffering the most cruel of abuse.
“Support of every kind really can make a difference to those at the lowest ebbs of their lives.
“Claire’s a true inspiration and despite having endured the things she has, she’s dedicated to changing people’s lives for the better in Jack and Paul’s memory.
“As the largest specialist charity in Yorkshire, each year IDAS supports over 20,000 women, men and children affected by domestic abuse and sexual violence.
“They provide refuge support, access to a free, confidential out-of-hours helpline, outreach services and specialist support through the criminal justice system.
“No child should die at the hands of a parent and Claire is determined to never stop campaigning until the government takes meaningful action to ensure every a brighter, safer, future for all victims of domestic abuse.
“Every penny I raise will help to support their life-saving services.”
Since the tragedy - which shocked the entire country - Claire’s campaigned to secure a law change.
Her ex-husband had a known history of domestic abuse, including making statements that he was capable of killing.
Claire paid tribute to her friend’s fundraising mission.
“Michelle’s become a true friend over the years and I’m delighted she’s doing this for IDAS, a charity which helped not only me but thousands of others,” she told the Chronicle.
“I’ve known her since I lost the boys and she basically turned up on my doorstep and simply offered friendship and now we’re here, 11 years or so later.
“IDAS workers are a true lifeline, an emergency service, for so many.
“The book was published for anybody who’s lost a child and it’s also for anybody who’s going through domestic abuse or has been through domestic abuse.
“It may help some people change their lives or validate their own situations.
“Michelle’s fundraising for what is a brilliant cause and I’m proud that she’s chosen the charity.”
